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Writing Family Stories? Let Music Be Your Guide!

Writer's picture: Joanne MasonJoanne Mason
A father and young daughter at the beach in the 1970s. The father is wearing sunglasses, a blue sweatshirt and blue and red plaid bathing suit. He is holding a fish. The girl is about three years old, wearing a white sleeveless dress. There are boats in the ocean behind them.
Dad and me at the beach in Westbrook, Connecticut.

Often, people feel overwhelmed at the thought of writing a family history. How much time should they cover? How much detail do they need? And where should they even start?


I sometimes suggest musical snippets to get the stories flowing. Music can be a powerful way to evoke memories and details that might get overlooked when you’re writing a linear narrative.


One example for me is “Raindrops Keep Fallin’ on My Head,” the 1969 hit by B.J. Thomas. With just a few notes, I’m transported back to a beach in Connecticut, singing this song with my Dad—except he made up his own lyrics:


  • Raindrops keep fallin’ on our dog.

  • Raindrops keep fallin’ on my sandwich.

  • Raindrops keep fallin’ on Richard Nixon.


We took turns making up lyrics, the zanier the better. And while the story shows a heartwarming moment between father and daughter, it also shows that my Dad had a goofy sense of humor, one to be appreciated.


Which songs evoke memories for you?

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